So many a time I have heard from girls that I am a freak show because I LOVE love LOVE the the look and feeling of scruff on men. Most girls Hate it, but I just can't avoid the temptation of wanting to touch it. So anyhow I was recently trying to decide what exactly it is about SCRUFF that I love just so much and I have decided that it is the Tactileness of it. I simply have to touch it. I love the fact that a new texture is thrown into the usual routine of skin. I could really just run my fingers across it all day.
The other thing that I love is thick leathery callused hands. It is the first thing that I look at when a boy catches my interest. His hands can literally make it or break it. I think they tell alot about a guy and I simply can not stand holding a hand of a guy who has softer hands then me....it makes me feel like I am holding hands with a girl....and in my book that is just a bit ackward.
ANYHOW I recently concluded as to WHY I am so into textures when it comes to attractions and here it is.....
Dr. Oz (who I love) was talking about attraction one day. He talked about how pharamones play a huge role in our attraction to one another. That some people are attracted to certain pharmones that other people are not attracted to. He also explained more in it that I found fascinating you would find boring so I will spare you. As I was telling my aunt about this, she suddenly hypothosized something that we still laugh at to this day....... "THAT IS IT RONNIE, she said, "THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM...YOU HAVE NO SENSE OF SMELL...THAT IS WHY YOU AREN'T BOY CRAZY..YOU CAN'T SMELL THEIR PHARMONES." I laughed quite hard at this but am quit sure it is true.
SO IN CONCLUSION: Most women are drawn in by the smell of male pharamones, but since my sense of smell is essentially GONE, in my world pharamones just don't exsist. So I have EVOLVED myself to rely on other senses more heavily, and the one proving most useful has become the use of my TACTILES to find a man. lol